Title: Assalamaulikum. Respected Scholars, I have a bad habit. I do not know how to define this problem. I am not married yet. When I go to bed either for sleeping or taking rest unintentionally some bad issues comes up in my mind such as stuff like what type wife do I expect and how should I enjoy with her and etc??.. I believe sometimes I think something that I should not think before getting married but it just comes up in my unconscious mind. Could you please give me any suggestions or ideas how to get rid-off this problem. By the way I try my best to follow the sunnahs of sleeping before getting to the bed.

Question: Assalamaulikum. Respected Scholars, I have a bad habit. I do not know how to define this problem. I am not married yet. When I go to bed either for sleeping or taking rest unintentionally some bad issues comes up in my mind such as stuff like what type wife do I expect and how should I enjoy with her and etc??.. I believe sometimes I think something that I should not think before getting married but it just comes up in my unconscious mind. Could you please give me any suggestions or ideas how to get rid-off this problem. By the way I try my best to follow the sunnahs of sleeping before getting to the bed.

Answer ID: 11008Posted on: Aug 30, 2020

Bismillah hir-Rahman nir-Rahim !

(Fatwa: 211/45=TL/1430)

Make wudhu before going to bed and keep on reciting durood with rosary till sleeping, you shall easily get rid of bad thoughts, in-shaAllah.