- Social Matters >> Talaq (Divorce)
- Total Questions : 446
- Q. If a lady does not follow her "iddat" after divorce. how is it?
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- Q. If a man cannot give women sexual pleasure can that lead to divorce?
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- Q. Maine aapka ftwa no 3669 ka ans. 19/19=M me para. Ab main jannah chahta hau ki agar bibi shohar ke sath sex ko razi na ho tab kiya karna chahiye, tab jab bibi naraj hokar shohar ko kuchh na bataye jabke shohar bibi ko manate manate thak chuka ho aur wo naragi me hi apne fathar ke ghar chely jaye aur 3 ya 4 mahine bad aaye.yese halat main shohar ko kiya karna chahiye.
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- Q. I am working in a Government company. I have started to invest my savings in shares of those companies which are doing halal business for medium term basis (I do not invest in banking, Future & options etc. ). On this my wife starts blaming me that I am playing gambling and started a quarrel with me. One day during arguments I asked her that It is better that you quit my life (Is se behtar hai ke tum mery jindagi se chali jao). I was not having any intention to give talaq to her at that time of speaking these words. After that she said that it is equivalent to talaq bayen (i.e. one talaq). Than I said to her that I do not have any intention to give talaq. After that we both done Nikah (Ejabo-Kabool) without any witness. Now I have three questions: 1. Whether a talaq-bayen occurred between us. 2. If yes, was our Nikah that we performed alone is valid without any witness. 3. Whether Investing in shares of company doing halal business is better than doing a Fixed deposit in Banks. All arguments happened between us only. No other person knows.
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- Q. As-salam-allayakum, My sister got married a year back. My brother-in-law is asking her to take Khula, whereas we want to keep the marriage. Following are the issues in marriage; 1) My brother-in-law has Pre-mature ejaculation and erectyle dysfunction. He also have performance anxiety, He is in mid 40's age. Rather than accepting this as problem and getting treated for it, he straightaway blamed my sister and now is asking that she takes khula as he is unable to enjoy sexual marriage life. My sister got checked by doctor and she doesn't have any problem. 2) My brother-in-law family was pressuring our family to get their uneducated daughter married to my brother who is younger to their daughter, this was no match and there was no agreement between our two families before or on my sister marriage. They kept on pressurising us for almost 6 months and now my brother is married, they are saying that everything is over. 3) My sister is not treated very well and her husband doesn't talk to her or support her. he also don't support her financially, infact always eyes for her salary. She is living with us and has only stayed with her husband for 35-40 days in one full year. Whenever She wants to go to her husband house, she is questioned why she has come and he (my brother-in-law) tell her come only when he calls her (which he never does). Please give us fatwa, in this condition what should we do? As my sister want to keep marriage and my brother-in-law wants she should take khula. Also, what are the rights of my sister, if she takes khula, does she get backs her jewellery, salary etc? Allah Hafiz
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- Q. My sister got married last year & after nine months of marriage her husband gave her Talaaq in writing. At that time she was pregnant but this was not known to her husband. Is the talaaq valid & is there any chances of reconciliation?
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- Q. Main apse ek masle me roshni talab karta hu umeed ap meri mushkil sharai aitebar se door karege. Meri ek ladki se dec 2004 me mulaqat hui. ye ladki hai to muslim magar bohat hi modern khayalat se wabasta aur naukri pesha. Hum log dosti me ek doosre ke kafi kareeb agaye aur faisla kia june 2005 main hum shadi karlege. Is dauran may 2005 me use hamal tehar gaya. Jo sirf hum dono ko pata tha, mukharar waqt ke hisab se humne june me nikah karlia jis me ladki ke walidain sharik the aur meri taraf kisi ko is baat ki itelah nahi di gayi. Mazeed malumat ke liye ladki pehle se talaq shuda thi aur meri bhi ye doosri shadi thi. ...?
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- Q. If husband says to his wife " the TALAQ UPTO YOU , WHENEVER YOU WANT. i want to give talak , but you start it and you wish " now it is whose hand.
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- Q. They had forced me to say takaq 3 times. Then I told ??I am not giving talaq?? Again forced with all bad words and gundas again forced to say 3 time talaq again I told them NO ??I am not giving talaq?? after all pressure to save my life I had told ok ??I give her talaq?? ??MAY TUMHA TALAQ DETA HUN?? 3 times. So, Is talaq valid?
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- Q. If a woman touches a naa baaligh boy with lust does the boys father become haraam on her?
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- Q. Please, tell that if husband and wife drink jhoota milk of each other some says that the relation will change and it is prohibited (HARAM). i m talking about bufflow milk plz enlight this portion.
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- Q. Assalamo by the name of Allah i just wanted to ask tht due to some problem i just said my parents tht i left my wife in urdu on phone i said tht mein usey chor diya hoon but it was just in anger this words i just used on phone and said only to my parents not to my wife i just wanted to know tht now what happens according to islamic shariyat.
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- Q. My wife calls me beta and mera baccha some times. What is the ruling in shariya for this? What I heard is calling one's husband beta or mera baccha is wrong and one has to pay kaffara for that. The same thing holds good for the husband too, if he calls his wife amma.
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- Q. My sister want's khula,she want the seperation. in this situation due to misunderstanding, she is having their Gold, Laccha and ring. he is having our Gold,almirah,Bed other gift items. What is the masla for this? after authorized khula only we take our items from their house and same we send husband things like gold, meher to his house. please tell me in details.
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- Q. My parent does not like my wife so they want that i should give my wife TALLAQ. They r saying that my wife is not beautiful and she is not serving them and pther members of my family. And at the time of marriege her father didnt give too much DOWRY. And they want that i should give my earned mony to them i m not doing this so they are angry with me and giving me bad duas plz tell me correct solution can i leave my parents to solve this problem bcz they are not very poor or i should give talaq to my wife for the pleaser of my parents according to that hadeth (dont obey ur parents if they order u to leave ur wife so do it).
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- Q. Can you please get clarified my following masla from Mufi sahib. I have been married for 2 years. For the last two months there has been quarrel with my wife on very small issues. Actually, my parents stay in a village and I stay with my wife in a city where I do job. We generally visit my parent 2-3 times in a year for 5-7 days. Recently, when we were at my parent place on a small issue my wife told -"Mujku thumharey maa baap ki zarorat nahi". I got anger and replied -"phir mujku bhi teri zaroorat nahi.". This happens two times. After that I left her at her parents' place. Presently, now and then on phone we start fighting and in anger I used to tell words like -" Hum doono ko nahi ban rah hai", "tho jaa"..etc. I never uttered any word like "talaq". I have following 4 questions- 1. Will the words I told to my wife going to impact my Nikha? 2.Sometimes it comes to my mind to give talaq to my wife, but actually I do not want. And there is always something like wasawasa in my mind that I told talaq in my mind, but I never uttered any word from my mouth even when I was alone. Will this effect my nikha? 3. When somebody spells "talaaq" to wife in her absence, ie no one is around, Is talaq still valid? 4. What should be the minimum sound needed to utter "talaq", so that talaq is valid?
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- Q. I a living in USA, i went to pakistan for my nikkah, after my marriage i lived 2 months wwith my husband but situation was so messed up that i have decided for khullah now. My husband lives in London UK, i am not in contact with him since last 7 months. My inlaws in pakistan also have moved to new adress which we dont know. so i dont know their adresses, and my husband thretened me that i will never be able to get rid of him ever. He is not willing for talaq, me and my family tried our best but he and his family is constatnlt verbally abusing and harrasing me and my family. Now the question is , where should the court send a copy of khulla or degree so that my husband and inlaws should be informed that the case is in court and what should i do if he is not giving me divorce. he asked to me that he will never give me divorce. now he is trying to avoid the situation and hiding. other question, if i decide to marry again, will i be going through the IDDAT period once khullah will be valid. As i am not living with him since last 7 months. or i can marry after khulla is valid thru the court. kindly guide me.
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- Q. If wife is forcing you to sign divorce she has written on piece of paper and due to force without intention you have no choice but to sign this is not valid divorce. Please reply,
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- Q. I am a lawyer, recently there are several judgments of high court and supreme court holding the talak given as per the islamic law as illegal and holding that for the dovorce negotoations and attemts should be made for reconcilations and if they are not made such talak is illegal . What will be the position of the marraige and talak in this circumstances, please reply.
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- Q. Over 7 years I am living in gulf but I usually come to India twice to stay over 35days in a year. Although I was not happy, but due to both family sides?? sentiments and forced from both families I had bended my head and got forced married in 2007. But, in the month of August5, while I was communicating with my wife over telephone I become anger and pronounced thrice the word ?? Talaq?? at the same time.. is this ??Talaq?? made us separated or its not valid? In case, if it??s not valid can I take back her? Incase of if I would like to reconsider my decision, how much time i mean what is last day of iddath period is it exactly 3 month or more can be consider.. I would appreciate if you please reply as soon as possible as the time is so short..
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