- Social Matters >> Talaq (Divorce)
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- Q. Maulana Sahab, my maternel aunt's husband gave three talaqs to my aunt but he is a very random and confused person who is at the same time deobandi, barelvi and ahl hadees too. After giving talaq he said that he intended to give one only. After that his elder brother took a fatwa (signed) of a mufti in saudi arbia who said that it is counted once only and, therefore, now he is living with my aunt. Please tell me whether the talaq was valid? if yes then what should we do now in order to make him understand as well as the family of my aunt?
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- Q. Respected Maulana Assalamualiakum Wa rahamatullahi barkatahu I got married on October 12 2008. We were having regular misunderstanding. And on February 1 2009 she went to her home asking me to give her talaq. I did not have any intentions of giving her talaq. But later after 6 months my wife came back with her parents and conveyed to me that she will not quarrel with me any more. But the very next day she started all over again. Which impacted me to say her "I will give you talaq, 'Talaq' you are free now do whatever you want", Please let me know what talaq I am in. I want to continue my life with her. Please provide me with a solution. Allah know better Thanks in advance Regards!
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- Q. Janab mufti sahab asalam,i got married an year back,i and wife were living a woderful life,suddenly there were some misuderstadings and i told my wife that if u do not change ur attitude then i will give u talak and i said it twice,then everything got settled nd we started living a happy life together,then again some misunderstanding took place and she went to her home for two days,the very next day her chacha came to me nd told that my wife is saying that i had said to her talak three times one month back,i have never said this and the worst part is that there was no one when i said to her two times that i will give u talak if u didnt change ur behaviour,in such situation the talak take place or not,my in lawas r not ready to hear me although my wife is lying,even if they want to settle this on khula i m not ready bacause i had not given her talak even a single time.
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- Q. assalamoualaikum mufti sahab plz clarify following points 1)if a person gives one talaq wht r the condition to keep her as a wife 2)after giving one talaq will it be two talaq valid for life time or after certain time interval it will be again counted as three.3)one talak was given within 40 days of haiz after child birth so will be the talaq counted as three again after certain period or only two r left till lifetime Plz answer as soon as possible.
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- Q. salam me and my husband have been married for 11 years and due to not being educated on islam we both were unaware of the procedure, as well as my husband being unaware of the quranic procedures regarding talaq he had been suffering from depression due to a number of reasons.Although we had disagreements in our marriage he never said divorce at all but the situation got out of hand and family got involved he said to me in english i dont want to be with you no more a member of my family forcefully said to him thats not the right way you have to say talaq three times and he said it three times in pressure he regrets what he did as he was already in a bad state of mind but he can take oath that he was unaware of the actual procedure he said he didnt want to be with me himself and then only repeated talaq 3 times together because he was told to do so. we want to reconcile both of us and want an approval.the sharia council in england have said it is classed as one please can you give us your opinion.this is an urgent matter as my iddat will be ending in a week please can you let me know as soon as possible jazakhallah
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- Q. 2 years ago, in an heated argument and in severe anger my husband told 3talaq but by evening we made up with each other and have beem living togther since then- is this talaq valid?
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- Q. Assalamu alaikum hazraat, my frnd who live in america married to guy who s pakistani and liveing in canada, after marry he start ignoreing her n keep abuseing n ofen beat also when she is pregnent, so she leave him n go back to america, that guy also get back to pakistan, after that they did not meet again, she have a kid now who is 4years n that guy has never seen his own kid, she want talaq from him n dont want to live with him anymore, but he denies to give talaq to her n keep threating her whnevr he calls her, so now how she get talaq? If he dont want to gv talaq then how she give him khula? She cant go pakistan or that guy cant go america, please help her,, thanks
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- Q. Hazrat Mufti Jee A person Wrote a Text Massage (SMS) on his Mobile phone on August 25, 2008 and sent to his wife and she read it. "Talaq. This is the first time im saying it. There are 2 more times now becareful in this relationship.." Then he wrote a second SMS on Sep.8, 2008 and sent to his wife and she read it. " You wanted a divorce im going to give you a divorce. Talaq. Now is one more time. You were asking it." Then he wrote the 3 SMS on Sep. 9,2008 and sent to his wife and she read it. "You want to hear it for the third time well here you have it.Its OVER you fucken bitch its fucken over TALAQ. THERE YOU HAVE IT NOW STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM." My question is did TALAQ Occured? Jazakumulla Khair
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- Q. Assalamualaikum Most Respected Hazrat Mufti Sahib Dam Barkatuhu "If a person Text Massagees on 3 different times Talaaq, Will Talaaq Happen?" Jazakumullah Khair!
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- Q. Respected Mufti Sahib. Asslamo-alaikum. Earlier I had sent a letter seeking guidance in my matter in the light of HADISH & Sunnah. I came to know of the similar case ((Fatwa: 1317/1036=H/1430) and after reading BEHESHTI ZEWAR but I did not receive the letter. Allah knows better if you received my letter or not. I request you in the name of Allah to kindly reply my matter at the earliest. My problem is: I solemnized my NIKAH on 20th may 2006 secretly with a fellow in the presence of valid witnesses in which there were no member of my family. It was because of my oath of Quran Sharif that I will marry him. This was in March 1999. Later that fellow compelled me to fulfill my oath as he frightened me that I could not even go for kaffarh as the oath was pertaining to him. I knew that my family won?t allow me to marry him. But he insisted that after NIKAH he would talk to my parents & will persuade them for proper marriage ceremony which he never did. Since then I have been living separately. I did not receive any assistance from him or the MEHR. However, we had intercourse after NIKAH. Later on I came to know of the truth. It was a well planned conspiracy hatched to defame my family. I was totally astonished. My family came to know of my NIKAH. They left the decision entirely upon me saying that they won?t interfere as they were not involved in this NIKAH itself. Subsequently I tried to reconcile with the situation but I felt completely cheated and could not make my mind to live with him any further. There was neither affection nor respect left in my heart for him. It became clear that I won?t be able to fulfill the duties of a wife for him any more. Therefore, I asked him to give me TALAQ but he refused initially. When I insisted for TALAQ (Oct 2007) he said ?TUM AZAAD HO?. After about 2-3 days I again asked him to say in the proper way he again replied ?TUM AZAAD HO?. Third time in the same month(i.e.Oct 2007) after about 4-5 days of his previous statement I asked him to give me TALAQ . I said ?MAIN IS RISHTE KO HAR AITBAR SE KHATM KARNA CHAHTI HOON. MERE DIL MEIN YE PEHLE HI KHATM HO CHUKA HAI. MAIN IS RISHTE SE RELATED KOI BHI FARZ NAHI NIBHA SAKTI HOON. MAIN TUM PAR MEHR BHI MAAF KARTI HOON. MEHARBANI KARKE MUJHE IS RISHTE SE AZAAD KARO?. He replied ?TUM AZZAD HO. TUM JAHAN CHAHO SHADI KARO.? I said ?SHUKRIYA?. I had no contact with him after this conversation. In the second half of the month of December 2007 he met me in a public place and said that he does not want to get separated and wants to continue the relationship which I refused. After this he met me again in May 2008 and said the same things again. To which I refused again and said that I had already accepted that ?TALAQ?. Since then I never met him again. I was trying to begin my life afresh and I got engaged in Oct 2008. I was planning for marriage when this fellow appeared again disrupted my engagement claiming that I was still in his NIKAH as he had never uttered the word TALAQ though he admits having said TUM AZAAD HO when I had insisted for TALAQ. So Mufti Sahib please clarify: If I am still in his NIKAH or I am divorced.
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- Q. Assalamu alaikum warahmatullah. Janab Mufti sahab, I Md. A.H. Dabaka married Mst. R.B.Dhekiajuly on 31/08/08 I marred according to Islamic law. I and my wife love each other very much. But her parents do not like me. So they, by any means, want Divorce. Some days ago her parents in my absence took her to their home with false vows. After that they put pressure on her for divorce. Accordingly, she wanted divorce. But I did not it. I only replied in Assamese through SMS (TUMI JI AKARE MUK ERI JABO BISARISA TAR KARONE MOI TUMAK TALAQ DIA JORURI, KINTU, TUMAR NISINA TUMAR PORIALE U BISARILE MOI TALAQ DIBOLOI RAJI ASU) {Translate to English} ?whatever you have wanted,?? It is necessary for me to divorce you. If your family wants like you, I am ready?. On another day I told her, ?if you go to your parental house without my wish, I shall divorce you? Has it become divorce? I love her and will love for ever. They have forcefully want to got her married to another person. Is not this an act against Islamic law? In hope for answer from your side. ZAZAK ALLAH.
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- Q. Janab Mufti Sahab, Asalaam Alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatahu. A certain person was angry(for a week) with his wife, in fit of rage he said talaq once(there was no witness other than himself and his wife) and left the home, when he was outside he picked up quarrel with his brother in law(wife's brother) the quarrel went on for couple of hours and he got more angry and went back home and pronounced 2 talaq's(again no witness) after which he realised his mistake and cried and weeped and claimed that he had said talaq only once the second time. He then went to the muftis and qazis in saudi arabia and narated his story to them who scolded hime for using the word talaq and told him that talaq had not happened and he can take back his wife by saying infront of two witnesses that he wants to take his wife back. In this situation i have couple of questions. -If he said talaq once and left and a duration passed(3-4 hours), he spoke to entire world about different matters and quarreled with people and came back to say talaq twice again. Does the talaq get implemented, will it be counted as talaq in one sitting(which as per my limited knowledge is two sittng). And he claimed that the intention was scare the wife so that she will obey him(listen to him). -If the husband claims that he gave talaq only twice and there are no witness and the wife says that she heard him say it thrice what should the wife do who does the sharia listen to??.
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- Q. My Name is Abdul Hannan, I marred Msmt. Rezia Begum on 31/08/08 . asper Islamic low. But her family members are not like to me. So, her family members presser to her that she take TALLAQ from me. Once she said to me ? ME AAP SE JUDA HUNA CHAHTA HO, MUJHE TALLAQ DEDO? but I Said to her by an SMS ? TUMHARE TARAH TUMHARE PARIWAR KI LUG AGOR MUJHSE TALLAQ CHAHE, TO HUM TALLAQ DENE KE LIYE RAJI HO? But her Family not Demand me for TALLAQ and I Don?t Give TALLAQ? I just give above an SMS her ? CHAH NE POR TALLAQ DENE KE LIYE RAJI HO? Kya Is se Hamare Shaadi Tyt Gaya?
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- Q. Assalamu alaikum, Dear Janab Mufti Sahib, I have left my wife on 31st May 2008 to her parent?s house when I came to know from doctor that she was conceived to take rest for two months. After that I called her for which her mother intervened and refused to send her. Because of her mother?s attitude towards me I stopped going to my in laws home. There was no contact between myself and my spouse from July 08 to September 08. During November 2008 my spouse called me over phone and asked for my blood group and I informed her the same. After that there were contacts over phone between me and my spouse till the date of delivery. After delivery I went to see my spouse and new born baby in Hospital. At hospital, her mother again intervened between us and there were heated arguments between me and her mother. After three months of delivery, I sent a letter to my spouse thro? post to come back to my home for which my spouse replied me thro? post ? that she thought of coming back after three months but your letter reached me prior to one day of three months time. (For your information the letter was written in Tamil though I know that my spouse cant write or read tamil) ?. Saying this she made a full stop without informing that whether she wants to come or not. Then I called her relatives (in Bangalore) to come and solve our problem. During the talks, there were heated arguments between my parents and her parents and the talks were failed. Then last Sunday, I called my spouse over phone then suggested her to come to a third parties place where we can sit and solve our differences for which she initially accepted and told me that after her father has gone for Jamaat and he will be returning tonight. Once her comes she will get permission and come on Monday. On Monday morning I called her over phone, she replied after asking her parents bit by bit over phone that I have to come to her parents? house to have any discussion on this, and she refused to come with me. Finally she told me that her relatives who are in Bangalore have to come and we will have an agreement on this after which she will be coming back to my house. In a fit of anger, I sent an SMS with these words ? Aaj ke din main tera aur mera rishta ku qatam karta hoon ye teen lafz se ? Talaq Talaq Talaq ?. Please convey me whether this talaq is valid, in my case I never had any quarrel with my wife nor wife has any dispute over me. The only dispute was with my self and her parents. Please let me know at your earliest.
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- Q. Assalamo Allikum Hazrat, I got married 10 year back got 2 childrens 1 boy and 1 girl, my wife doesn't respect me at all, and always do the things at her own will. Uses abusive language for me mother who is no more. Finally I decided to give her talaq and send single SMS in which I wrote that in my full senses i mohad adil khan giving you talaq, talaq, and talaq, as i tried my best to changed your attitude but you will never change, hazarat please tell me that talaq is now applicable.
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- Q. My sister wants jhulla from her husband his family is very money minded go to dargas etc so we want khulla they agreed to sign initially now they r not signing the papers and coming up with new problems everyday will her khulla still be valid if he doesnt sign tyhe papers he had agreed to the khulla infact his family and him had asked for khulla so initially so that they wont have to pay meher money to her.
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- Q. Assalm-u-Alaikum, need an urgent help, husband and wife had a fight over domestic isuue, she insisted for talaq, husband didn't want to give talaq but it went on and on and finally husband says talaq talaq talaq, now can they stay together. even if talaq has happened 1) is it mandatory to make it public that they are no more husband and wife 2) if they don't make physical relation, can they live together for their children but people will not be aware of their talaq. please help, Allah Hafiz!
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- Q. assalmo alaikum my sister got married to my cousin. now she does not want to live with him. she insisted her husband that he give her talaq and she was excusing him of mehr. he said " tum aazad ho" at other moments he said "tum jisse shadi karn a chaho kar sakti ho". then he met again about 3 months later in the public place and said that he does not want to get seperated. to which my sister said that no she won't live with her and since then they are living apart. so is this khula valid? are they still in nikah?.
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- Q. Salamualaikum mufti saheb,Please answer the following question: If a husband divorces his wife by pronouncing "Talaq" three times in one sitting then is Talaq is enforced?If yes then How can the husband take his wife back into his nikah.Please specify the procedure. Jazakallah
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- Q. Salam , I was married last year in June 2008. I had a great life in Canada and after my marriage I moved to Dubai last november ... I sold everything here and moved to his home in Dubai. My husband who is from pakistan but lives in Dubai has a servere temper anger problem but a sweet side as well ... This is both our second marriage. We have issues like any other couples ... But he is very different , open minded ,, great knowledge of islam but he is not in touch with Allah at the moment as his first priority is his work. He has been with many females in the past , very open minded but yet a good person ... he did treat me well but the problem is that i always seeked attention from him as his working hours were off such as he works seven days a week and due to stocks markets he brings back work at home till late nighs.. so we hardly had time together.... Now the problem is that one night he was very upset and said talaq three times to me and there was no one else present in the room, just me and him. like I said he has a temper and verbally and physically abused me at times with not the right state of mind.... and he also apologized for it later as he didnt know what he was doing .. and i understand i use to bug him alot to take some time out for me.. and in anger i use to make him insecure that i will leave to canada ... which i agree i have my flaws and i seriously worked on it and realised as im not perfect... like i mentioned he knows what he said about talaq as he has great knowledge of islam ... but since he has said that i kept quiet and gave him his space and didnt have any physical contact but the problem is that i cant believe that i am divorced becos i am in love with him and willing to change not by force but becos i want too... he has sent me back to canada and im living with my mother ... he hasnt told anyone in his family or mine.. it is been a month now .. he wants me to move on with my life ... he hasnt called or im not in touch with him ... he just keeps beating around the bush that im stubborn and dont understand .. which i really dont.. he said to me that he doesnt want me and i dont understand why becos i am willing to adjust not by force but because i want too ... This is the first time since we have been married that he has said talaq straight away 3 times.. i was never unfaithful my heart was true all the time loving him and even now ... he called me few days ago to tell me that he is very happy alone and that we are divorced .. basically in less than 5 months of our marriage he thinks he gave me plenty of chances and we should move on right now than later and waste each other time as he feels we are not compatible ... But i dont understand what have i done .. i want to make things work... now that he has given me talaq 3 times ... I dont wish to marry someone else and have intercourse becos I dont want too at all AND I DONT UNDERSTAND why am i being punished by doing so ... I just to re marry my current husband who i love dearly ... please guide me what can be done .. I want another alternative ,, any other way that i can do nikka with the husband im with and in love with without having intercourse or marry someone else... Because I cant do that, its like im being punished while i didnt do anything ... Please i really need help ,,, I ALSO want to know that my husband is born a moslim, he has prayed in the past ... he drinks alcohol he does clubbing women also his work is his first priority at this point .. but he has great knowledge of islam at the other hand .. so i want to know a person like that if he says talaq three times while he doesnt pray , drinks , work ... does that means his verbal words are acceptable to divorce me in islam ? can u please help me becos i dont want to go through this painful procedure of marrying someone else ... kindly advice me what to do .. Thanks
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