- Social Matters >> Rights & Etiquettes
- Total Questions : 111
- Q. If I am performing salaah and one of my parents calls me, should I terminate my salaah and answer them or should I continue with my salaah and answer them when I am finished?
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- Q. Sir I am an engineering university student in Lahore but i m a resident of Multan so i live in hostel and in my department there are only two students of Multan. One is me and other is syed raza imam naqvi, who is ahletashie. in vacations we go ome togeter. and in university we often eat togeter and sometimes he give me something to eat and sometimes i give im someting to eat in friendsip. is my this type of relation wit im rigt or wrong? if wrong ten tell me that what type of relation sould be between us? kia us ko salam krna ya us k slam ka jwab dena jaiz ai?
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- Q. Assalamu alaikum, Could you please advice as a matter of urgency on our. There have been rumours that he practices sihr with jinns. In the past he revealed to a person that he has a jinn with him and can help him with his troubled marriage. But instead of helping him, he visited his wife, while he was away and revealed his secrets and tried to marry her. She told him about his visit afterwards as she was shocked to see an imam do such thing. The imam also enquired about her wealth also. The imam also did sihr on a masjid committee member using jinn. His relations used a peer to find out as he kept falling ill. He has differences with the imam as he changed a lot of things in the masjid to help Allah S.W.Ts cause. i.e new carpet, new madrassa syllabus and new targets for madrassa teachers(imam are teachers also). There is evidence from 2 people regarding the imam also. Could you please tell me how do we go about informing the committee? Is it haram to tell them or is it our duty to disclose an imam who commits sins? Or we should keep quiet? Is it haram to pray behind such an imam? Jazakamullah kahirun
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- Q. Assalamualikum mufti Sb., I am very Sorry for asking question continuously because In Oman I don' know whom I need to clarify my doubts. If you have any contacts in Oman, kindly send me. In Oman, we are statying in one room which is provided us by rajastani brother, who is also muslim. Rajastani is stying with his wife. While we entered to room or leaved from our room thru Kitchen side only because home was designed like that only. We are entering to room or leaving from room, Rajastani wife is doing some work at Kitchen. Accordingly to Hanafi fiqh I know, we should not listion women talks also(her talk also parda for us). My question is shall I told Salam(Assalamualikum) to her while entering to room or leaving to room.
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- Q. As'salamu alaikum Mufti Sb., In our Office both Muslims & Non-Muslims are working. Due to Islam country, in general both Muslims and Non-muslims are told Salamalikum each other. My usual practive is while Non-muslims was told Salamalikum, I was replied him just Walaikum(One Mowlwi told me to respond non-muslim brother like that only). But my friend non-muslim, while I was told just walaikum, he asked me why u r not told Walaikumassalam. Kindly advise me how shall I manage with him.
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- Q. Assalaamualaikum Mufti Saheb, years ago I did a mistake which seemed to be so great in my wife's eye. She down graded me to the core and at the same time her brother and sister joined hands too in smearing me. The smearing was too much and so great for me to apprehend until I was very much ashamed and angry of what was done to me. My dignity and intergrity was smashed by both of them. As a result, my heart broke and I decided not to talk to my brother and sister in-laws. I could not even see them or hear their names as my anger gets boil up and I would try to avoid to communicate with them at all time. It has come to an extend that if ever they would come and visit my house definitely I would chase them away. But I do not stop my children and wife to see them although I do not like it for them to do so. In short I hate them so much and I consider without them my life is better. Please advise me as I do consider my act as severing the siratturrahim and what shall I do. It is extremely difficult for me as I fear Allah and His messenger's words in regards to severing sirraturrahim. Thank you. Wassalaamualaikum warahmatullah.
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- Q. Assalamualaikum, Please clarify is there any special status to Muslim people of Makkah and Madina(arabs). Do we have to give them respect due to their relationship with our prophert Mohammed Sallellahu Alaihiwa Sallam. I mean is there any specail qualtiy or status related to ARAB Muslims?
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- Q. As'salamu alaikum va rahmathullahi va barakathou!! Can we greet a Non Muslim with Salam? If not Why? Jazakallahu Khairan
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- Q. MY YOUNGER FAMILY MEMBERS AND RELATIVES CALL ME BY THE NAME OF "LAI" MEANING - BIG BROTHER. MY WIFE ALSO CALLS ME BY THAT NAME TOO. SO IT IS PERMISSIBLE FOR HER TO DO SO??
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- Q. As salamu alaikum Wo rahmatullahi Wo barakatuhu, I am working as a software engineer. can you please tell me the etiquettes i need to follow at work as per islam as "Sahaba use to understand the deen of business before they start.
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- Q. 1.Kindly mention Hadees(if any) that prophet Muhammed (PBUH) used shake hand with two hands(Here people says Prophet )used to shake hand only with one hand,which is correct 2.Is there any Hadees which discourages shake handing while going(When two person met , greets with salaam , shake hand then after conversation while disjoing just say Assalamu alaikkum, or salam with shake hand same as the time they met) 3."Some of the cristaian from Najjara(Nassara from Najjar)came to visit prophet muahmmed (PBUH)and when the time of prayer for cristians prophet muhammed (PBUH)allowed them to pray inside the masjid" is there any hadees ragarding this, if so please send
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- Q. My wife is a converted from hinduism to ISLAM 4 years back,prior to our Nikaah.Now she observe all Salah & read Quraan daily --Alhamdulillah.My family is not allowing her to meet her parents(those who are hindu's) probably for the different culture reason & any future faith clash issues for my child. My wife is now staunch ISLAM follower, i have full confidence that she can never be diverted from ISLAMIC belief/faith-As a human being , one can understand the mother/daughter relation sister/brother relation...which don't see the religion boundaries, Sometime i feel as if my wife is missing something, My in laws also don't have any issues for my wife turning to ISLAM, Please guide me whether my family imposed decision of not letting my wife to meet her parents/sibling is correct in the light of shariah??????
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- Q. Janab Mufti saheb, Ashlamu alaiykum, Mera sawal yeh hai ke kya koi non-muslim ka humne koi achcha kam kiya ho aur woh non-muslim yeh kahe ke may god bless you ya apne dil me hi duva kare to kya is duva ka badala hume milta hai, mere matlab hai ki kya allah kafir ki duva kabul karta hai. Dusara ye ke jab koi non-muslim ne humara liye (for muslim) achcha kam kiya ho to kya hum use yeh kam sakte hai ki allah tumhari ummar daraj kare, ya allah tumhe rozi de ya allah tume salamt rakhe, aisi duva ek non-muslim ke liya ek muslim kar sakta hai ya nahi. sukriya
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- Q. Salaam, I am in a very big Exam from Allah (SWT). I recently got married. I knew before marriage that there is a girl very much in love with my husband (in the family). But despite that he got married to me. In the beginning I could sense that he doesn't love me. But as I gave him so much love and respect in every single way. He has started to love me aswell. We live in the UK and the girl that loves my husband lives in Pakistan. She calls and annoys us Every single day.. she doesn't talk on the phone but just to hear his voice. Then Once she said hello to him when he picked up. He straight away hung up but didn't mention it to me. which made me really upset because I heard her voice aswell but didn't say anything either. Few days later I confessed to him that I know everything and then again when she called and said hello to him.. he gave the phone to me and I heard her saying hello again. Then I hung up. Since then I have been very upset that she is STILL annoying me and my husband. I want a piece of mind and just want too forget EVERYTHING and give my husband the same love as I used to.. but now I give him rude answers and break his heart. I can see in his eyes that he gets really hurt by the harsh things I say sometimes, but I can't help it. Shaitan tells me he is not worth my love. Please can you give me a dua so the Love between us grows more and so I can get over the whole situation. For the first time we had a fight today and I don't feel upset at all.. my mind is saying 'Good he deserves it' but my heart is crying tears of blood. I pray Alhamdulillah and I ask ALLAH (SWT) for Sabr and strenght.. but somehow shaitan in my head takes it over. Please Help me. I love my husband to bits and I cannot hurt him on purpose but shaitan makes me hurt him. I am also pregnant and I am worried that this much tension will have effect on my pregnancy. Please Help Me. Jazakallah khair..
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- Q. I'm in the midst of serious family problem. My father (70 years) and mother (55 years) have been married for 28 years. I'm the eldest son, 27 years with 2 sisters and 1 younger brother. My parterns very often fight with each other since our childhood. All the time abusing each other. This reached it peak when six months ago my father accused my mother of adultery out of anger. My mother was about to commit suicide. My father goes to the houses of all our relatives and tell them false stories of how bad our mother is. My mother is in serious depression. Now my sister is about to be married. But my father still behaves like that. Now my mother asks me and my younger brother to hold our fathers neck and ask him to stop his misdeeds. On the other hand my father always abuses my mother everyday. I know both are at fault but most of the time its my father who has not control on his anger and make a bigg issue out of nothing an starts abusing my mother. They dont want to sit down and and solve the problem. Always the fights are on petty issues. We cannot tolerate this any more. Please tell us what we children, especially the sons do in case the parents behave like this.
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- Q. Please clarify whether musafah has to be done with one hand or two hands. which is the sunnath method.
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- Q. If someone insults one, one's relative, or one's friend, what must one's reaction be? What must one do?
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- Q. One of my non-muslim friend comes to my home and everytime he touch feet of my dad so i feel very bad when i go to his home and doesn't do it. To give respect to elders can we touch feet of elders, muslims or non-muslims? If not what are the other ways by which we can give them respect. Please suggest. Jazaakumullah...
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- Q. Is it allowed for a women to call her husband by his name? Is it better not too? What is the daleel/proof for this?
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- Q. On writing messages to our friends on phone is it necessary to do salam.if yes thn in what format cause people use many shortcuts like a/a or aoa or simple salam.wht abt darood on top aftr's ALLAH NAme.what we should mention.
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