Social Matters >> Talaq (Divorce)
Question ID: 48459Country: India
Answer ID: 48459
Bismillah hir-Rahman nir-Rahim !
(Fatwa: 1424/L-477/TL=11/1434) If you have given one talaq to your wife and her iddah is also over but you did not take her back then she became stranger after the iddah. Now if you talk her without need then it shall be similar to talking any strange girl which is unlawful. Hence you should not talk your divorced wife in order to enquire the welfare of your children. Rather talk to the male members of her house. As far as the matter of sending the expenses of the child and his mother is concerned then if you are sending her expenses without her demand then there is no harm as it does not involve uncovering (bepardagi) and you do not need to talk to her. It is a kindness and it is not harmful as per the Shariah.
Allah (Subhana Wa Ta'ala) knows Best
Darul Ifta,
Darul Uloom Deoband, India