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    Question ID: 7212Country: United Kingdom

    Title: My wife wants to visit and stay with her aunty for a few days, there are ghair mahram in the auntys house,first being her auntys husband. I have told my wife she cant go because of this problem, she still insists to go and is angry with me for not letting her go.We both live in my parents house, my brother lives in same house who is unmarried, now her point is is that parda should be applied in parents house, if it is not then she should be allowed to go to see aunty where there is also ghair mahram. At the minute i cannot find seprate accomodation due to financial. My question is what can i do in this situation and should i allow my wife to go to see her aunty and live there for a few days? Jazakallah, sorry if the question is too long but i needed to put full details infront of you.

    Question: Assalamualikum, My wife wants to visit and stay with her aunty for a few days, there are ghair mahram in the auntys house,first being her auntys husband. I have told my wife she cant go because of this problem, she still insists to go and is angry with me for not letting her go.We both live in my parents house, my brother lives in same house who is unmarried, now her point is is that parda should be applied in parents house, if it is not then she should be allowed to go to see aunty where there is also ghair mahram. At the minute i cannot find seprate accomodation due to financial. My question is what can i do in this situation and should i allow my wife to go to see her aunty and live there for a few days? Jazakallah, sorry if the question is too long but i needed to put full details infront of you.

    Answer ID: 7212

    Bismillah hir-Rahman nir-Rahim !

    (Fatwa: 1563/1338=B/1429)

     

    Allow her to stay there for one day. It is better that you go there with her and take her back.

    Allah (Subhana Wa Ta'ala) knows Best

    Darul Ifta,

    Darul Uloom Deoband, India