Title: I have a question(1) in shabe barat is allowd to go in kabarastan for essa le sawab,is it sabet (2) does the person who is died they com out from kabar for ther family member.(3) is it allowed to put the rose pettels & itter (perfume) on kabar.please give me the ref for the answer.(4) my wife is pregnent for 2 month and she want to keep roja in ramjan for full month is it ok . sorry to ask you so many question.

Question: ass salamalakum, mufti saheb, I have a question(1) in shabe barat is allowd to go in kabarastan for essa le sawab,is it sabet (2) does the person who is died they com out from kabar for ther family member.(3) is it allowed to put the rose pettels & itter (perfume) on kabar.please give me the ref for the answer.(4) my wife is pregnent for 2 month and she want to keep roja in ramjan for full month is it ok . sorry to ask you so many question.

Answer ID: 7266Posted on: Sep 1, 2020

Bismillah hir-Rahman nir-Rahim !

(Fatwa: 1453/1368=D/1429)

We have been asked to visit graveyard to remember the death and the world hereafter. It is proved that the Prophet (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) visited graveyard on the fifteenth night of Shaban, therefore one can go there occasionally in order to remember death and isal-e-sawab (deliver the rewards to the dead). But considering it necessary, going in congregation, lighting the graveyard, burning candles etc are innovations in religion.

(2) No.

(3) No, it is not proved by Shariah.

(4) She should try to keep the fasts, it better.